Thursday, November 1, 2012

the beginning.


For the last several weeks, I have been reading through the New Testament with my church.  We have a reading plan, 3ish chapters a day for 90 days.  It started out as something that our LifeGroup was doing and I thought, hey, I’ve never really followed through on that, so this will be a good opportunity for it.  That was the end of my thought process.  That’s it.  I gave no thought whatsoever to the challenge that it would be for me.  Not only the challenge it is to find a solitary 30 or so minutes each day to carve out time for reading the words, but also the challenge of paying attention to what’s being communicated and how I am being called to act on it. Turns out I should have seen how deep the water was before I dove in head first. Yikes.

In the last few days really, I have found a deeper connection to the words on the page.  It’s not just words and it’s not just how many chapters I’ve got under my belt.  This is GOD talking.  To me.  Me. He’s telling me what he wants from me as a follower of Christ.  How I am supposed to act, think, talk, pray.  Everything.  I’ve read most of these words here and there many times before throughout my life, but it’s never really had a life changing impact on me.  I read the words and I understand and I’m knowledgeable.  I know what God wants, what He expects, and I can pin point areas where I need to change or learn or grow.  But that’s where it ends. I don’t actually change or learn or grow.  Sure, I’ve knocked out foul language and partying and things like that over the years, but really, truly change?  Not really.  I still have all of the same gut reactions and thoughts I've always had.  I’m stagnant.  The worst possible action for Christian.  No action. 

So I've decided to use my time with God’s word everyday to help me change.  To actually grow.  And I’m counting on God’s words to help change my heart in the following areas:

Anger
            I get so angry.  Over nothing.  I go from 0-60 in a matter on seconds.  One little thing goes wrong and I blow it.  And the whole day is useless.  Issues with Raegan and sleeping, speaking hurtfully and hatefully to Jesse.  I take my anger out on Jesse or Raegan.  The exact people who should be feeling my love all of the time.

Stress/Worry
            Sometimes this goes hand in hand with anger.  I stress about schedules and juggling things and arriving on time.  I worry about the same things.  Then I get angry when they don’t go as planned.  I detest the feeling of being stressed and anxious to the point I will snap (who doesn't ) and I really think that God hates that for me too.

Identity
            Like many women, I tend to try to find my identity in the dumbest and most incorrect places.  My appearance, acquiring “things”, my home, my daughter, my relationship with my husband.  All things that will end up leaving me not feeling good enough.  I should be looking to Jesus for my identity, not the world.  I didn’t even realize this was as big an issue as it is until I listened to a podcast from Perry Noble on the Lies Women Believe today.  A big thanks to my husband for recommending that one to me. :/

I have no idea what God is going to do through this journey.  But I’m excited to find out.

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